INTERNET GAMBLING COMMING TO NEW JERSEY

Wednesday, 14. August 2013

 

 

 JUST WANTED TO SAY SOMETHING ON THE INTERNET GAMBLING THATS  GOING TO HAPPEN IN NEW JERSEY   ARNIE WEXLER CCGC
 
 
COMPULSIVE GAMBLING IS A IMPULSIVE ADDICTION  AND THE ADDICTED GAMBLER  CANT RESIST THE URGE TO GAMBLE AND CHASE LOSSES OR WINS
 
HOW DO WE PROTECT THE UNDERAGE  PERSON FROM GAMBLING ON THE INTERNET
 
 
IN THE HEAT OF THE GAMBLING WHEN AN ADDICTED  GAMBLER NEEDS  TO KEEP GAMBLING I WOULD THINK IT WOULD BE A SMART THING FOR THE STATE TO HAVE A REG. THAT SAIS IF THE GAMBLER GOES THRU ALL THE $ IN THE ACCOUNT.  THEY  HAVE TO WAIT 24 HRS BEFORE THEY  CAN ADD MORE $  (RELOAD) TO YOUR INTERNET GAMBLING  ACCT
 
   

 FROM THE D.S.M.—- Persistent and recurrent maladaptive gambling behaviour as indicated by five (or more) of the following:

  1. is preoccupied with gambling (e.g. preoccupied with reliving past gambling experiences, handicapping or planning the next venture, or thinking of ways to get money with which to gamble)
  2. needs to gamble with increasing amounts of money in order to achieve the desired excitement
  3. has repeated unsuccessful efforts to control, cut back, or stop gambling
  4. is restless or irritable when attempting to cut down or stop gambling
  5. gambles as a way of escaping from problems or of relieving a dysphoric mood (e.g. feelings of helplessness, guilt, anxiety, depression)
  6. after losing money gambling, often returns another day to get even (“chasing” one’s losses)
  7. lies to family members, therapist, or others to conceal the extent of involvement with gambling
  8. has committed illegal acts such as forgery, fraud, theft, or embezzlement to finance gambling
  9. has jeopardized or lost a significant relationship, job, or educational or career opportunity because of gambling
  10. relies on others to provide money to relieve a desperate financial situation caused by gambling

 

 

What is Compulsive Gambling? 

 

 

 

BY ARNIE WEXLER CCGC

Compulsive gambling is a progressive disease, much like an addiction to alcohol or drugs. In many cases, the gambling addiction is hidden until the gambler becomes unable to function without gambling, and he or she begins to exclude all other activities from their lives. Inability to stop gambling often results in financial devastation, broken homes, employment problems, criminal acts and suicide attempts.

 

The gambler is eventually able to remove themselves from reality to the point of being totally obsessed with gambling. Eventually, they will do anything to get the money with which to stay in “action”. They will spend all their time and energy developing schemes in order to get the money to continue gambling. Lying becomes a way of life for the gambler.

 

They will try to convince others and themselves that their lies are actually truths and they will believe there own lies.

 

After they hit a real bottom they will have to do something if they want to try to recover.  Most gamblers at that point will want to stop but can’t (they wont be able to).

 

Most even at that point  will keep gambling  some will end up in jail  some will attempt suicide  some will die from their addiction as they will not take care of their health or the stress will kill them.

 

And a small group of addicted gamblers will seek and find real help  but the real trick is to get in to real recovery.  Not just abstinence.  By the time the  gambler comes for help they have broken brains (Meaning their brains don’t work like they used to when they were not in there addiction).

 

To get real recovery the gambler needs to work on them self’s  one day at a time and get someone to do there thinking for them who has been in recovery some time and has there brains  are working right   (a sponsor)  After some time in recovery there brains will start to work again.  They  will become productive on there job and become a good father  and husband.   Recover is a process and does not happen with out a lot of work on your self . and making a moral and financial inventory. But people can recover and do.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 
                   
 
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BASEBALL is worried about performance-enhancing drugs. What about gambling !

Friday, 9. August 2013

By Arnie Wexler  CCGC
BASEBALL is worried about performance-enhancing drugs.
When Will Sports Confront Gambling Problems of Its Own Athletes?
Athletes may be more vulnerable than the general population when you look at the soft signs of compulsive gambling: high Levels of energy; unreasonable expectations of winning; very competitive personalities; distorted optimism; and bright with high IQs
It is time for college and professional sports to outline and executive a real program to help players who might have a gambling problem or gambling addiction problem. Yet college and professional sports still do not want to deal with this. They do not want the media and public to think there is a problem.
Years ago, as a compulsive-gamblers counselor, I was sent an airplane ticket from the National Basketball Association office in Manhattan and met with league officials, players and union officials, concerned about players’ gambling. I was told, “We have a problem, and we’re trying to find out how bad the problem is.” Officials asked me to keep my calendar open for the spring of the following year and said to me that they hoped that I might address every team in the league.
When I hadn’t heard from the NBA, I called and asked, “When do we start?” The talked were cancelled, and the response I got was this: “They said that the higher-ups didn’t want the media to find out.”
And over the years, I have spoken to many college and professional athletes who had a gambling problem. One NCAA study a few years ago reported: “There is a disturbing trend of gambling among athletes in college.” You can’t think that these people will get into the pros and then just stop gambling.
Compulsive gambling is an addiction just like alcoholism and chemical dependency, and all three diseases are recognized by the American Psychiatric Association’s diagnostic and statistical manual. Nevertheless, we treat compulsive gambling differently than the other two addictions. Society and professional sports treat people with chemical dependency and alcoholism as sick persons, send them to treatment and get them back to work. Sports looks at compulsive gamblers as bad people and gets barred them from playing in professional sports.
If colleges and professional leagues wanted to help the players, they would run real programs that seriously address the issue of gambling and compulsive gambling. Education and early detection can make a difference between life and death for some people who have or will end up with a gambling addiction.
One sports insider said to me: “Teams need to have a real program for players, coaches and referees, and they need to let somebody else run it. When you do it in-house, it’s like the fox running the chicken coop. You must be kidding yourself if you think any player, coach or referee is going to call the league and say, ‘I’ve got a gambling problem, and I need help.’ ”
When you look at the headlines about professional athletes, coaches and referees on the perils of gambling, odds are very good that might be looking at the tip of the iceberg. Here are several from the recent past:
Afew years ago  Investigators from Major League Baseball are trying to arrange a date to meet with Yankees third baseman Alex Rodriguez to discuss allegations that he participated in illegal poker games, according to a report by ESPN.com. And its not the 1st time
= Pete Rose [on the Donahue show, November 1989]: “I didn’t seek help for my gambling problem until the middle of September, and I know it’s something I can’t lick by myself. I need help.”
= Charles Barkley troubled by gambling addiction problem.
= Dolphins’ Will Allen investigated for pulling out gun in dispute over gambling debts.
= Antoine Walker has a scheduled court in Las Vegas in a case involving an $822,500 gambling debt.
= An arrest warrant for Shawn Chacon as a result of his alleged failure to pay Caesars Palace $150,000 in gambling markers.
= John Daly says gambling problem will “ruin me” and says he has lost between $50 million and $60 million during 12 years of heavy gambling .
= Russia’s Nikolay Davydenko was at the center of the match-fixing controversy in tennis.
= Michael Jordan was spotted at the baccarat pit of an Atlantic City casino in the wee hours of the morning before game two of the Eastern Conference Finals.
= Art Schlichter spent a decade in prison: “Ten years, seven months and two weeks, inside 44 various jails or prisons” because of gambling addiction.
= NBA referee Tim Donaghy is now in recovery for his gambling addiction. (From Tim Donaghy’s book if ever released: “I kept waiting for a Knicks game when Stafford, Bavetta and Kersey were working together. It was like knowing the winning lottery numbers before the drawing!”)
= March 1991: Lenny Dykstra, a notorious high-stakes bettor, was linked to a gambling probe in Mississippi. Dykstra was indicted in May on federal bankruptcy charges for allegedly removing, destroying and selling property that was part of a bankruptcy estate without the permission of the trustee.
= Paul Lo Duca says he bets with off-shore bookies, which, he claims, is legal. Running up big gambling debts — or even being perceived as a heavy gambler — leads to serious trouble. (What’s interesting about is that neither Major League Baseball nor the Mets seem bothered about the reports. Oh, the commissioner’s office mumbled something about gambling being bad.)
And for some its to late — Denver Broncos wide receiver Kenny McKinley
had a gambling problem and was deep in debt when he commited suicide
There are people in various sport’s halls of fame who are convicted drug addicts and alcoholics, yet compulsive gamblers are unable to get into these halls of fame. In fact, as far as professional sports goes, an alcoholic and chemical dependent person can get multiple chances, whereas a gambler cannot.
I am a recovering compulsive gambler who placed my last bet on April, 10, 1968, and I have been fighting the injustice of how sports, society and the judicial system deal with compulsive gamblers for the last 45 years.

I run a national help line: 1-888-LAST BET.
Arnie Wexler ( )
Arnie & Sheila Wexler Associates
LAKE WORTH FL 33463
Office #: 561-249 0922
Cell#: 954-501-5270
Arnie Wexler
Arnie & Sheila Wexler Associates
Lake Worth FL

By Arnie Wexler  CCGC
BASEBALL is worried about performance-enhancing drugs.
When Will Sports Confront Gambling Problems of Its Own Athletes?
Athletes may be more vulnerable than the general population when you look at the soft signs of compulsive gambling: high Levels of energy; unreasonable expectations of winning; very competitive personalities; distorted optimism; and bright with high IQs
It is time for college and professional sports to outline and executive a real program to help players who might have a gambling problem or gambling addiction problem. Yet college and professional sports still do not want to deal with this. They do not want the media and public to think there is a problem.
Years ago, as a compulsive-gamblers counselor, I was sent an airplane ticket from the National Basketball Association office in Manhattan and met with league officials, players and union officials, concerned about players’ gambling. I was told, “We have a problem, and we’re trying to find out how bad the problem is.” Officials asked me to keep my calendar open for the spring of the following year and said to me that they hoped that I might address every team in the league.
When I hadn’t heard from the NBA, I called and asked, “When do we start?” The talked were cancelled, and the response I got was this: “They said that the higher-ups didn’t want the media to find out.”
And over the years, I have spoken to many college and professional athletes who had a gambling problem. One NCAA study a few years ago reported: “There is a disturbing trend of gambling among athletes in college.” You can’t think that these people will get into the pros and then just stop gambling.
Compulsive gambling is an addiction just like alcoholism and chemical dependency, and all three diseases are recognized by the American Psychiatric Association’s diagnostic and statistical manual. Nevertheless, we treat compulsive gambling differently than the other two addictions. Society and professional sports treat people with chemical dependency and alcoholism as sick persons, send them to treatment and get them back to work. Sports looks at compulsive gamblers as bad people and gets barred them from playing in professional sports.
If colleges and professional leagues wanted to help the players, they would run real programs that seriously address the issue of gambling and compulsive gambling. Education and early detection can make a difference between life and death for some people who have or will end up with a gambling addiction.
One sports insider said to me: “Teams need to have a real program for players, coaches and referees, and they need to let somebody else run it. When you do it in-house, it’s like the fox running the chicken coop. You must be kidding yourself if you think any player, coach or referee is going to call the league and say, ‘I’ve got a gambling problem, and I need help.’ ”
When you look at the headlines about professional athletes, coaches and referees on the perils of gambling, odds are very good that might be looking at the tip of the iceberg. Here are several from the recent past:
Afew years ago  Investigators from Major League Baseball are trying to arrange a date to meet with Yankees third baseman Alex Rodriguez to discuss allegations that he participated in illegal poker games, according to a report by ESPN.com. And its not the 1st time
= Pete Rose [on the Donahue show, November 1989]: “I didn’t seek help for my gambling problem until the middle of September, and I know it’s something I can’t lick by myself. I need help.”
= Charles Barkley troubled by gambling addiction problem.
= Dolphins’ Will Allen investigated for pulling out gun in dispute over gambling debts.
= Antoine Walker has a scheduled court in Las Vegas in a case involving an $822,500 gambling debt.
= An arrest warrant for Shawn Chacon as a result of his alleged failure to pay Caesars Palace $150,000 in gambling markers.
= John Daly says gambling problem will “ruin me” and says he has lost between $50 million and $60 million during 12 years of heavy gambling .
= Russia’s Nikolay Davydenko was at the center of the match-fixing controversy in tennis.
= Michael Jordan was spotted at the baccarat pit of an Atlantic City casino in the wee hours of the morning before game two of the Eastern Conference Finals.
= Art Schlichter spent a decade in prison: “Ten years, seven months and two weeks, inside 44 various jails or prisons” because of gambling addiction.
= NBA referee Tim Donaghy is now in recovery for his gambling addiction. (From Tim Donaghy’s book if ever released: “I kept waiting for a Knicks game when Stafford, Bavetta and Kersey were working together. It was like knowing the winning lottery numbers before the drawing!”)
= March 1991: Lenny Dykstra, a notorious high-stakes bettor, was linked to a gambling probe in Mississippi. Dykstra was indicted in May on federal bankruptcy charges for allegedly removing, destroying and selling property that was part of a bankruptcy estate without the permission of the trustee.
= Paul Lo Duca says he bets with off-shore bookies, which, he claims, is legal. Running up big gambling debts — or even being perceived as a heavy gambler — leads to serious trouble. (What’s interesting about is that neither Major League Baseball nor the Mets seem bothered about the reports. Oh, the commissioner’s office mumbled something about gambling being bad.)
And for some its to late — Denver Broncos wide receiver Kenny McKinley
had a gambling problem and was deep in debt when he commited suicide
There are people in various sport’s halls of fame who are convicted drug addicts and alcoholics, yet compulsive gamblers are unable to get into these halls of fame. In fact, as far as professional sports goes, an alcoholic and chemical dependent person can get multiple chances, whereas a gambler cannot.
I am a recovering compulsive gambler who placed my last bet on April, 10, 1968, and I have been fighting the injustice of how sports, society and the judicial system deal with compulsive gamblers for the last 45 years.

I run a national help line: 1-888-LAST BET.
Arnie Wexler ( )
Arnie & Sheila Wexler Associates
LAKE WORTH FL 33463
Office #: 561-249 0922
Cell#: 954-501-5270
Arnie Wexler
Arnie & Sheila Wexler Associates
Lake Worth FL

Just read Dan Patricks interview with Pete Rose in SPORTS ILLUSTRATED

Friday, 9. August 2013

Just read Dan Patricks interview with Pete Rose  in SPORTS ILLUSTRATED
Pete said Bart Giamatti told him  “i need to reconfigure my life” my guess is he ment get into recovery and stop gambling.
DOES PETE ROSE BELONG IN THE HALL OF FAME?
There are people in various sport’s halls of fame who are convicted drug addicts and alcoholics, yet compulsive gamblers are unable to get into these halls of fame. In fact, as far as professional sports goes an alcoholic and chemical dependent person can get multiple chances, whereas a gambler can not.
I am a recovering compulsive gambler who placed my last bet on April, 10, 1968, and I have been fighting the injustice of how sports, society, and the judicial system deal with compulsive gamblers for the last 45 years. Compulsive gambling is an addiction just like alcoholism and chemical dependency and all three diseases are recognized by the American Psychiatric Association’s D.S.M. Yet, we treat compulsive gambling different then the other two addictions. Society and professional sports treat people with chemical dependency and alcoholism as sick people, yet they look at compulsive gamblers as bad people.
In my years of recovery I have met many compulsive gamblers who have found recovery and become some of society’s most productive people. I do not think that the discussion should be whether or not Pete Rose belongs in the hall of fame. He does! I pray for Pete Rose to find recovery because I know what recovery can do for a person’s life who has an addiction. Some people will believe that Pete Rose doesn’t have an addiction, but I have a copy of a television interview where he says (on the Donahue show 11/8/89), “I didn’t seek help for my gambling problem till the middle of September and I know it’s something I can’t lick by myself. I need help”
ARNIE WEXLERCCGC
6420 BRIDGEPORT LA
LAKE WORTH FL.
954 5015270
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N.F.L. The gambling is back

Wednesday, 7. August 2013

A Book maker once told me I love the N. F. L.

The bookmaker said———-
“I have 200 gamblers who bet with me every day when the N. F.L games start i have over 800 gamblers bet with me its the best time of the year for me”
Football is the most bet on sport in America.
I remember when Skip Ballis, then of the Dallas Morning News, had a gorilla in the Dallas Zoo make football picks for them,” Wexler says. “The gorilla’s picks were doing better than the sports writers”.

By Sid Dorfman/For The Star-Ledger The Star-Ledger on August 06, 2013 at 9:48 PM, updated August 06, 2013

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The instinct to gamble is just about immutable. You can bet on it.

John Rothschild, in his new book, “Guide to Football Handicapping,” makes his opening observation that 117 million people watched the Super Bowl in 2012 and that Las Vegas and sports books have made a profit on 18 Super Bowl games in the last 22 years.

The profit may be calculated in billions but nobody knows exactly how much. Bookmakers don’t like to talk, or be talked about. They are in a business which thrives on the telephone, although someone may be listening these days.

At any rate, Rothschild writes referring to bookmakers and their profit, somebody knows what they’re doing. Shouldn’t you?

I’m tempted to counter that if somebody knew what he was doing, he wouldn’t gamble. But if you must, Rothschild, with a light touch, suggests how to do it.

Anyway, at the same time, Arnie Wexler, the long-time reformed gambler and the voice of abstinence for years, has issued another of his periodic warnings against the self-inflicted ravages of wagering on sports events. Arnie has been doing this for years.

It is Wexler’s passion to subdue the gambling instinct, which has destroyed so many lives, but the fact that he’s been at it for so many years indicates how difficult it’s been and that he’ll probably have to be committed to his mission for the rest of his life.

================================ According to the National Gambling Study Commission, there are 5 million compulsive gamblers and 15 million at risk in the U.S.
It is easier today to place a bet than it is to buy cigarettes or a can of beer.
Arnie Wexler sais “I have spoken to more compulsive gamblers than anyone else in America over the last 45 years. “Some have spoken about embezzlements, white-collar crimes and destroying themselves and their families. Others were so desperate that they were contemplating suicide. ” “Over the years, I have also spoken to many college and professional athletes who had a gambling problem,”
Arnie Wexler is a recovering compulsive gambler who placed his last bet on April 10, 1968. Wexler has been fighting the injustice of how sports, society and the judicial system deal with compulsive gamblers for the last 43 years. He and his wife run a national help line: 1-888-LAST BET. If you want or need help, please call now.
Wexler says. “In fact, an NCAA study a few years ago noted that there is a disturbing trend of gambling among athletes in college. Do you think that these people will get into the pros and then just stop gambling? ”
“Compulsive gamblers are very vulnerable during the N. F.L season because they are looking for the ‘lock bet,’ Wexler says. “The media hype juices the gambler and — as addictive gambling is an impulse disorder — many compulsive gamblers will be in action and even some in recovery will relapse”.
“With all the games and the media hype about odds and betting lines, there is an explosion of betting on these games,” Wexler continues. “I can’t believe that newspapers carry ads from these so-called handicappers, who are really ‘scandicappers.’ It’s also interesting to note how often the information is incorrect. ”
You would not expect to open your local newspaper and get a price list of illegal drugs for sale; But that’s just about what you can get today when you open your local newspaper to the sports pages all over the country. True, you don’t see drug prices but you do see lines and point spreads on sporting events. Illegal drugs can’t be bought, legally in any state. You can’t place a legal bet in America, except in Las Vegas.
There are ads in newspapers for 800 and 900 numbers that sell information to gamblers. Some of these ads read : “Get the game of the month free”, “We pick 75% winners”, “Last week we went 11 for 12″, and ” Get our lock of the week”.
I think the responsible thing to do would be for newspapers, radio and TV shows to carry a public service message. ” Like if you or someone you know has a gambling problem and want help call 888 LAST BET
Picture the following scenario: A young man uses the lines and odds from his local newspaper and uses it to set up a bookmaking operation in the local town pub. A law officer comes in and arrests the bookmaker and players. The next day the headline in the paper says: ” John Doe Arrested For Bookmaking and Hank Smith Arrested For Illegally Betting”. Hypocrisy you say? The very newspaper that carried the lines, now is carrying this headline.
Years ago i was on a TV show that Howard Cossell hosted (ABC Sports Beat). The topic was: Does the media encourage the public to gamble? Bobby Knight, Indiana basketball coach, said: “A newspaper who published point spreads should also publish names and addresses of services that render to prostitutes. They practically have the same legality in every one of our states, and I can’t see why one is any better than the other” On the same show former baseball commissioner Bowie Kuhn said: “Anything that encourages gambling on team sports bothers me. We all look hypocritical but than why are we putting up the odds unless we are trying to encourage it” David Stern, NBA commissioner said: “We don’t want the weeks’ grocery money to be bet on the outcome of a particular sporting event”
I would like to pose a few questions:
• Do point spreads in newspapers cause a proliferation of gambling?
• Do people see point spreads in the newspaper and think it is legal to place a bet?
• Does the media entice people to gamble?
• Does the media have any responsibility for the increase in numbers of compulsive gamblers in America?
• Does the media give the appearance that it promotes and condones gambling?
Get the real scoop — talk to Arnie Wexler who is one of the nations’ leading experts on the subject of compulsive gambling and a recovering compulsive gambler.
You can reach arnie at 561 249 0922 or his cell 954 501 5270
He has worked with college & professional athletes who had gambling addictions. And has spoken on many college campuses over the years.He has been involved in helping compulsive gamblers for the last 43 years. Arnie has spoken to students who gamble in college day and night. They even gamble during class, and it even goes on in high school lunch rooms. According to a Harvard study a few years ago, 4.67% of young people have a gambling problem.
Experts tell us that the earlier a person starts to gamble, the greater the risk of them becoming a compulsive gambler. In another survey, 96% of adult male recovering gamblers stated that they started gambling before the age of 14.
Data from National Hot lines show:
Forty eight percent of the people who gamble, bet on sports.
Anyone who needs help for a gambling problem can call our 24 hour national help line
1-888-LAST BET

Arnie and Sheila Wexler have provided extensive training on Compulsive, Problem and Underage Gambling, to more than 40,000 gaming employees (personnel and executives) and have written Responsible Gaming Programs for major gaming companies. In addition, they have worked with Gaming Boards and Regulators, presented educational workshops nationally and internationally and have provided expert witness testimony. Sheila Wexler is the Executive Director of the Compulsive Gambling Foundation. They also run a national help line (888 LAST BET) and work at Recovery Road, a treatment facility in Palm Beach Gardens, Florida that specializes in the treatment of those suffering with gambling addiction.

Arnie Wexler
Arnie & Sheila Wexler Associates
Lake Worth, FL
561-249-0922 954 501 5270